Saturday, September 13, 2025

Getting Organized and Staying Organized

Whether you are a new School Counselor just starting out or a School Counselor who finds themself in an elementary school setting, these 10 everyday forms are going to help you get organized and stay organized.  

When beginning at the elementary level there are so many things to think of like decorating your office, having fidgets or games for students and just the right books for every situation imaginable.  While these things are super important, and fun, it is more important to be organized and project an appearance of professionalism.  

As soon as you walk in the building you will begin to encounter requests for your services from parents, teachers, and students.  How will you manage these?  I started out with the infamous sticky note system and before I knew it, I was overwhelmed.  Drowning in sticky notes and often finding them stuck in places that left me clueless about their origin or meaning, I needed a system. After some trial and error I came up with a series of forms and a  file folder system that worked for me.  Here are the 10 forms I use every single day to help me manage my school counseling program.

EVERYDAY SCHOOL COUNSELING FORMS

REQUESTS TO SEE THE SCHOOL COUNSELOR FORMS

Forms for students, parents and teachers are critical for managing the requests to access your services.  The student Request to See the School Counselor can be introduced in your classroom "Meet the School Counselor" lesson at the start of the school year.  Teaching students how to contact you empowers them with the knowledge of how to seek help when they need it.  As you go over the Request to See the School Counselor form, you will share how to fill it out, where, it’s located, and difference in a small, medium, and big problem.  Reinforcement of the idea of the size of the problem often needs to be repeated.  Depending on your school set up, these request forms maybe kept in the classroom, outside your office, or in a place students frequent like the cafeteria or media center.  Be sure to include a container of some type to receive these requests as well as a small stack of request forms on a clipboard with a pencil attached.  

At the first faculty you can get a chance to share, explain the "Role of the School Counselor" and introduce the Teacher Referral for Student Counseling.  You may want to keep a stack near the teacher mailboxes for their convenience. 

Share the Parent Request for School Counselor Conference forms with your office staff. Make a stack of copies, put them in a file folder and explain to your wonderful office staff if a parent drops in wanting to see the school counselor, to please complete this form and the School Counselor will be in touch.  Have the office staff place completed requests in your mailbox.  Use of this form helps reduce the impromptu drop-in visits from parents as the office staff is confident in how to respond to parents who walk in asking to see the School Counselor. Be sure to check-in periodically on their supply of forms.

VISITS WITH THE SCHOOL COUNSELOR

The Pass to See the School Counselor is great for making appointments with students who have requested to see you.  Fill out  this form and  place it in the teacher’s mailbox as both a reminder and a pass for the time you wish for the student to arrive.  Signing the passes before coping saves a little bit of time. You can use the back of this form for notes too.

Use the Individual Counseling form to make notes during counseling sessions or after the student has returned to class. I used this a lot when I was at a new school.  Because I didn't know anyone, it helped me keep the students organized in my brain and to make connections with who were their friends and family. This form also gives you a place to record your plan and follow-up.  One way to manage these forms is to create a file folder for each student with whom you have an interaction. No need to make folders for your entire caseload. You don't have time for that and realistically, there are some students you will never see for a counseling or a conference.

Many School Counselors like to send a note home sharing with parents they have met with their student.  Offer a  I saw my School Counselor today note to each student after their visit if you would like to adopt that practice.

TRACKING REFERRALS 

The Counseling Referrals form allows you keep track of the verbal requests received as well as written requests.  It permits you to see at a glance, which students you have seen and helps keep track of written requests.  Use the date requested/date seen columns to help stay accountable on how quickly you are able to provide requested services.

PHONE LOGS

The Phone Log has saved my sanity, my memory and my backside many a time.  Early in my career, during a conversation with my lovely AP, she admonished me when she found out I didn’t keep a phone log. I started keeping one immediately and am I ever glad I did!  Phone calls I made, phone calls and voicemails I received, phone message notes from the front office, they all went in the phone log. I suggest printing these forms double-sided, hole punched, and place in a 3-ring binder.  Then every time you pick up the phone, pick up your pen and make a note. Experience says you will be glad you did!

PARENT CONFERENCES

The Parent Phone Conference form is kept in a folder next to the Phone Log. When you have to make a phone call to discuss a student’s attendance, grades, or behavior, this form is a great place to record that conference. If there are specific things to be discussed, use this form to make notes about things that are concerning about the student. Having that information in front of you when talking with a parent is a confidence booster. This is a great form to use when you know a phone call is going to be one for which you will want a record of things shared and discussed. You can even make a copy and email it to the parent afterwards. These forms can also go in the student file folder discussed earlier

Some schools have their own official parent conference form, but in case yours does not, this Record of Parent Conference will be ready when you need it.  I like that it starts by focusing on what is positive about the student.

PAPER OR DIGITAL?

All of the forms mentioned here are paper based and in PDF.  Some could be made digital, but in my experience, sitting behind a computer in a counseling session or parent conference, just feels detached. 

HOW DO YOU STAY ORGANIZED?

Are there school counseling forms that keep you organized? What forms do you love to use? What forms or types of forms would like to see created?  Be sure to share in the comments below.



Sunday, August 24, 2025


 The Counselor's Word Wall

Word walls are in every classroom in our schools' showcasing words related to the content of that grade or subject area. Whether it’s sight words in Kindergarten and first grade, math terms, or adjectives in Creative Writing, word walls help kids when learning new content and ideas. I have always had some kind of poster in my office with “feeling” words on it to help kids when they couldn’t find the right word(s) to express themselves. 

The longer I’ve been a school counselor, the more I’ve found my students in need of this tool. The emotional vocabulary of my students seems more limited than in the past. A word wall can help when they are struggling to communicate their feelings and can give a sense of control when searching for the right word to express strong emotions. 

After attending a book study several years ago about developing empathy in students, and being influenced by Zones of Regulation, I created The Counselor’s Word Wall. How can students express empathy without the necessary vocabulary? Many of my students were stuck using basic words to describe their emotions such as mad, sad, bad, and happy. I wanted a place where students could search in the moment for the word they needed and look for other words to describe the intensity of their feelings. The Counselor’s Word Wall gives them a tool to go to the basic emotion and look for additional words that might describe their more powerful feelings. 

The Counselor’s Word Wall also generated some great discussions about whether I had put a word in the correct category or if a word describing an emotion could have more that one meaning. Amazing conversations in individual counseling have been generated just by having the Counselor’s Word Wall for students to reference. When I see students looking off to the side I’ve asked, “What are you doing?” And they reply, “I’m looking for the right word.”  And I think, "AWESOME!" I know we are making progress! 

 Individual counseling questions and The Counselor's Word Wall 

"Which category describes how you are feeling?"

" On a scale of 10-1, 10 being the most _____ you feel and 1 being the least ____ you feel, where are you right now?"

"What word would you use if you were at a level 10?" 

"What word would you use if you were at a level 1?"

"What word describes how you are feeling right now?"

When you are at a # ____ level and feel (feeling word they use), what is happening in your body? What are your thoughts telling you?"

"If your feelings were to go down/up one level, from a #___ to a #____, what word would describe your feelings at the next level?   What would it take to move you from (word that describes current feelings) to (word that describes next level feeling up/down)?  How can you make that happen?"

This tool is Aligned with ASCA Mindsets and Behaviors: • B-SS 1 Effective oral and written communication skills and listening skills • B-SS 4 Empathy